Realizing the mistakes

Today I realized what I've been doing wrong in the last weeks. Neil Strauss says that we are only as good as our last PU, and that is absolutely true. BUT, my last PU was almost a year ago! It was perfect, I feel like the master of the Universe everytime I think about it. The problem is I never did it again.

And the vacation just kept going on and on and on...

 

 Now I see how dumb I've been lately! I need to start from scratch! You can't leave your car in the garage for a year and hope it stills kicks like it always did when you finally pick it up again - that's just DUMB.

Luckily I realized my mistake soon, and can now embrace the Stylelife Challenge and push myself into those awkward situations when you know what to do but your brain tries to hold you back. And, of course, kill those outdated instincts!

Analysis Paralysis - the victory of AFC

Today I went to the river to have fun with my bro Rocketman. We were there and this HBMilf was eyeballing me. A few minutes later, she was at it again. Hours later she still was waiting for me to make my move because I'm an interesting guy and could show her a great time. I didn't approach.

I had analysis paralysis because I thought about approaching instead of just doing it. Major AFC behavior and something I still can't quite handle! To make matters worse, I even had the perfect opener on the top of my head in like half a second! I didn't even need canned material because I know she would hook almost instantly.

The cold approach has always been my worse feature because I never used the 3 second rule. Now? Now I just can't beat myself up enough for acting like such a loser! Thanks NLP for teaching me that this mistake was the best way for me to acknowledge my sticking point and working around it.

Firing it up

For the last week or so I've been gaming this Hired Gun. At first she was acting all goofy and shit around me and I must say I only looked at it as a way to comfortably train my frame setting and body language. The last days, she's been giving me some mild IOI's and jumping through some minor hoops.

There hasn't been any kino yet, though I've had time to DHV and escalate verbally. Things are well on their way, but I feel like if I slip once I won't be able to damage control properly. And I'll let you know why: I have a strange power over one of her co-workers (HB10 Hired Gun) because I've never rewarded her good behaviour - I was taken at the time.

Even worse, I can't help but to come across rude to her for some reason. I just can't feel comfortable while she tries to open me - which happens more often than the other way around - and neg her on the spot uncounsciously without calibrating. The result: she ends up hating me for 3 weeks at a time, just to reopen me and get mad again. I gotta turn this around or else any kind of social proof is blown at that bar.

So, that's why I know there's no damage control strong enough if I mess up with HBHiredGun8 unless I can turn HBHiredGun10 into a puppy instead of a raging bull!

Repeat. Repeat. Repeat!

Everything was clicking today... for the worse. I guess I don't always feel like THE MAN - but I should! I'm smart, I'm good looking, I'm desirable, I'm witty. There's no rational reason for letting a day go to waste.

Repetition is the name of the game. Wether someone has to "fake it 'till he makes it" or just has to perfect some minor tasks, stacks or routines. And, most of all, one has to practice the inner game as much as possible. Either way, just the field can provide the kind of stimulation I need for my road to be fast and, above all, for it to reach its conclusion: the mastery of inner and outer skills.

Getting Stronger

Tell me you don't feel relaxed and at the same time empowered by this photo:

Yes, that is from where I've been getting my tan. But most of all, this is where I feel I can achieve anything I set out to. This isn't some new age BS, it's just the way things are! Find your place, set your goals and fight for them. Anytime things seem to slip away, go back to that place and adjust accordingly.

May that place be a physical one or just a state of mind or even someone who seems to bring out the best in you, don't lose sight of that place. It doesn't matter how much I'm about to change, I know where to be when things get rough and chaotic.

Discipline

Finally I'm getting the much needed discipline. The lack of it always held me back from achieving anything in my life, so it is time to stop hiding behind self made excuses and fight! I'm scheduling my days in a way that will help me make the most out of my 24-hour-short days.

I'm also working around the lazyness and the inner game problems, so that I turn it all around and can provide for you all a compelling adventure to follow! By the way, if there are any questions you want me to answer just leave them in the comment section and I will personally get back at each and everyone of you.

Now, time to go forth with the plan AND the schedule. See you later!

Bad Start

OK, I have to lay it down... I have not started sarging yet. I have been trying to make one of my best friends follow me and learn, and he even tried some DHV's in people he already knew with awesome results!
The problem is he hides behind this "been a shy guy all my life" excuse and it is driving me insane. I mean, his face lights up when I teach him something, but as soon as I say "now just use it and approach people" he simply withdraws.
I feel like I need a wing and he would be absolutely awesome, a ROCK STAR, if he just tried it.

Now, the real problem: I can't let it drag me down. I'm using it as an excuse for me to just get softer and softer. Tomorrow is a new day and a very different one. I don't care if I have a wing, I don't care if I'm at a bar, a club or waist deep in a pile of shit!

The revolution WILL begin!

Get in shape!

I already told you, i'm in the worst shape of my life. Luckily I've always felt energized by the heat and Summer in Portugal is great.
So, for the third time, I will take on the massive challenge that is [URL=http://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/insanity.do]Insanity[/url]. Wish me luck and LOTS of motivation!

In the meantime, I'll be watching the Vault Collection by Mystery, Lovedrop and Matador; and probably watching a few vids by Style.